We are wising up. Dissatisfied with the Old Boy's Club mentality and cultural stereotypes, we're overdue for a fresh take on sexuality. A more enlightened model integrates the heart--being cognizant of the positive energy you carry, choosing the right time and place. Also the new model necessitates a war on victimhood, going all out to rid your life of unhealthy sexual influences. This adds up to more energy for you. So, when approaching sexuality begin with yourself, then evaluate your environment. From here, you'll have a sturdy foundation to cultivate your erotic spunk even further.

Judith Orloff, M.D. is a board-certified psychiatrist and a medical intuitive. This article is adapted from Positive Energy: Ten Extraordinary Prescriptions for Transforming Fatigue, Stress, and Fear into Vibrance, Strength and Love (Harmony Books). She's also written the bestsellers Guide to Intuitive Healing and Second Sight. Dr. Orloff is an assistant clinical professor of psychiatry at UCLA and an international workshop leader on the interrelationship of intuition, energy, and medicine. For more information on Dr. Orloff's workshops and national book tour schedule visit www.drjudithorloff.com.